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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 17:04

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Ask yourself:

Is it necessary for people to wear towels while showering at gyms? If so, what are some ways to prevent the towel from slipping off and exposing oneself?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I've never read the book. What did Dorian Grey do that was so immoral and sinful?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does a person with schizophrenia hear voices?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Does eating bread before bed make you fat? If so, why?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

Why is my older sister so mean to me as if I was her enemy?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What is your language's pangram?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

That's it for today.

What is life without a job?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why are Trump's and Khan's experiences with authorities in the US and Pakistan similar?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Was there any slavery of white people that actually compares to the transatlantic slave trade? I’m not baiting or anything actually genuinely curious and want to know.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Making more friends is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.